I am sitting on top of Bald Mountain in the Uinta Mountains and thought I would take a picture to share. Elevation 11,900. I cannot see what I am typing so forgive any spelling errors.
Monday, July 30, 2012
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Mom continues to do good
Just talked to mom. She went to the doc and they x-rayed her and everything looks good. Mom looked at a vertebrate three or four or higher and was concerned. Doc said that it doesn't affect anything which is true. He liked the sticks and was messing around with them. A man she didn't know approached mom and said you're a hiker (then she went on about the surgery). The manager at food city approached her and said her son could really use those poles because he had surgery on his calf (mom told her to go to the hiking store to pick them up.) Mom is starting a trend. I explained that I have another set and to keep those. I think that she finally realizes that those poles are better than the walking stick that she had.
She mentioned that she uses the walker in the house still but that is okay until she is completely comfortable on the poles. I was giving her ideas on how to use the poles, laundry, and using the black cart etc..... She is listening.
Just wanted let you know that the doc doesn't want to see her for six months. Surgery was considered successful. He told her no more pt.
Take care
Rondah
Thursday, July 19, 2012
First day of school
Who say its not scary for teachers:
New school new student,new classroom and new parents! They are the scariest:).
Back to school tonight. We see first hand who the parents that care the most.
I am resting then i go back to my commute, across the street. I'm loving that
Talk with you later, by the way teachers are using the blogger with there kids:)
Rondah
New school new student,new classroom and new parents! They are the scariest:).
Back to school tonight. We see first hand who the parents that care the most.
I am resting then i go back to my commute, across the street. I'm loving that
Talk with you later, by the way teachers are using the blogger with there kids:)
Rondah
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Limo to Gatlinburg
Marciah - how was that limo ride to the airport? Was it worth it? Cost? Time to get there? Would you do it again? Mom called to tell me it appeared to be a good ride, but she hasn't heard the end of the story!
Monday, July 16, 2012
Hickory Nuts & Matthew
Like the idea of Hickory Nuts - we all experienced it! And since you suggested we all pitch in about our lives - guess what I saw this weekend (speaking of nuts)? I'm a big fan of Matthey McConaughey, so I went to see MAGIC MIKE! OMG - Isabel, what did you think of it?!?!? Terrible ending (pardon the pun), and a quite unexpected beginning! But oh, do those boys DANCE! Channing Tatum - oh my!
Who saw this yet? Guys - not allowed to comment!
Who saw this yet? Guys - not allowed to comment!
What Happens to this Blog?
I will answer that question by asking you another question. What do you want to happen to this blog? 1390 views since it was started a month ago. Rondah & I have enjoyed reading daily everybody's caregiving experience with Laverne's rehabilitation. We enjoyed reading it as much as we had enjoyed writing in it those first few days before during and after Laverne's surgery. Our hope is it would continue and expand to include different topics besides mice. All members of the family including our children should be invited and encouraged to opine.I think I can change the title. The Bernard Family Blog? How about Eeek Mice? Mice eating underpants, chair stuffing and running around the ceiling was a common theme of the past blog. Maybe, we should call it Hickory Nuts since we all took turns blowing the driveway and had our fill of those damm nuts. I still haven't recovered from the couple that hit me in the head. Hickory Nuts sounds appropriate.I imagine that the purpose of the blog would be to tell our stories. Stories that would be told to each other if we all still lived in Chicago and were having family get togethers on a regular basis at weekend barbeques and holiday events. Stories that are not told because we live to far apart. Sheena's wedding made Rondah and I realize how much we have missed those family get togethers. Maybe, you just want to let others know that you saw a great movie, brag about your football team, or vent about a bad experience with a company. The only thing that should be avoided is politics and religion since we want to avoid family feuds as well. Writing can be cathartic. Maybe, this blog can serve that purpose too. The blog will only work if you provide something to read on a regular basis. Technology has made it easy to read or write on this blog. I just hit the orange B on my smart phone and I can read or write something with a touch of a button. These last few weeks I have probably checked the blog twice a day. Thank you for the updates. So, let me know what you think about continuing the blog and who else you would like me to invite to contribute. The URL would stay the same. Hmmm, Hickory Nuts.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Child Support Has Ended....
A round of applause for all! I think everyone did a remarkable job doing their "duty" to love and serve thy parents. After reading all the blogs, I quite honestly think my "tour of duty" was the least rewarding to them, because after reading all these notes each and every one of you played a HUGE influence on Mom's support.
Rondah & Chuck - BRAVO! You both were the absolute best choice to getting Mom to the hospital, being there for the surgery, and being there for Dad. Rondah - you were able to calm both M&D because of your past surgical experiece, provide emotional and physical strength through her toughest times, and provide the "tools" needed to get her through this. Chuck - you were instrumental in helping Dad understand and comprehend what's happening, calming his nerves, and preparing this Blog! There couldn't have been a better choice here. Thank you so much for pulling the first week. You helped the sibblings as well calming us in knowing and understanding what she's going through.
Sheilah - In my opinion, the absolute person to be with Mom and Dad during her 1st week home. Again, couldn't have been a better plan! I know Mom was reassured you were there - you eased her mind on the sutures, meds, sugar content, her weight, etc. You met her surgeon which made all of us (and Dad) glad and comforted in knowing he did good. Understand you met Dr. Moore and was able to talk with her. Your medical expertise has played a huge part in this and we're all greatful for that as well. Thank you, too, for getting the Handicap Placard (it was you, right?) as they so needed that, that first change of bed linens and shopping. Oh, can't forget your love of those hickory nuts, and your worthy instructional lessons from Chuck on the workings of an Ipod! We all enjoyed watching (and hearing) how you've masterfully accomplished that skill! And by the way, you should know, Mom does look forward to your daily calls - it comforts her, it really does!
Patrick - you may have felt awarkward, but believe me, Mom told me numerous times how much you helped them out! It was good to have a guy there for Dad - he appreciated that, too. During your duty, you started taking time off, giving them more freedom which I think was the start of their next road to recovery. That proved well - timing was perfect. You got to do duties that helped them out, which proved she was getting back to normal by now. Thank you for bringing Andrew with you so they could enjoy not only their son, but their grandson! Got their mind off a few things with Andrew there! The only concern Mom had was your long drive home from Atlanta in one trip!!! You know that - I saw Mom's anxiety not knowing if you got home safely or not! But once you called to say you made it home - instant relief! And, the fact that the Cubs beat Atlanta made Dad happy!!! Oh, tell Andrew that I, too, heard the little pitter-patter of the mice feet in the basement ceiling!
My turn was actually a cooking experience! I really believe Mom enjoyed "teaching" me how to cook! I made (with Mom's instructional guidance) two meals which turned out wonderful. My "tour" was actually uneventful, mostly daily chores which got her and Dad back on track. Grocery shopping, liquor store run, laundry, bed changing, linens, ironing, plant watering, deck sweeping, but more importantly, sharing moments watching 4th of July parade (twice!) and Boston Fireworks. She really enjoyed that. Lived through a severe storm which unfortunatly killed 2 people on Abrams Falls (tree fell on them during hike when freak storm hit), and the total destruction of Sieverville's Douglas Dam Marina. Thankfully no power outages in Gatlinburg, but brought to mind what would happen if they did lose power - no fridge, freezer, lights, etc. My duty was to strengthen Mom in using the Sticks - keep her on the walker for balance, but start strenghening her on the sticks. Knowing we had just 2 more child-support visits, I wanted her to know how to use the sticks comfortably.
Mike - another Son visit - I instantly saw how Dad took to you. He really does like having male companionship. Perfect timing, again! We couldn't have planned this any better! You presented them more privacy than any one of us had. You stayed at the hotel all the time, giving them insight to what life was going to be like in one more week. You fixed my errors (by replacing the sink nozzle....thank you, thank you, thank you!), and provided support when needed. Most importantly - thank you for bringing both of them to church on Sunday. Mom hadn't been to mass in quite a long time and she so desparately wanted to go. Sorry your breakfast wasn't the best (those dang kids at McD's, hah? Gving you an empty breakfast container). Best it happened to you than Dad! And Marciah so appreaciates you picking her up at the airport. That was a blessing in itself. Glad you made it home and can relax your injured leg. Surprised you made the entire trip without letting word out to them you were in a plastic cast!
And Marciah - our last caregiver. Oh my gosh, it seems like you got the worst of the deal with all the mice issues! Your blogs were so comical! Eee-gads! You are so brave to tackle and deal with those "things"! You had bathroom duty, and am so sorry the Sarge was watching over you! Great comment to Mom about the cleaning lady will only wash the toliet once and that they're pros who know how to do this! You must have worked the hardest to work up a sweat! I never got to that point! But you know, I think you're "job" must have been an important one, too, because you knew you were the last care-giver. That meant you had to make sure Mom and Dad were comfortable on their own from this point on. You have to ensure all of us that Mom is "good to go", or that she has most of her strength back, and that before you left, that all was in it's rightful place ready to continue on. You brough humor to all by writing of mom's crazy go-cart rides in the grocery store - that was great! I would have never thought of doing that! Great job!
I can only speak for myself - when I left them, I had a tear in my eye and a lump in my throat. I muffled a sob as I hugged them good-bye. Mike was witness to that. I had a wonderful experience with them, I'm glad I was able to be there on a one-to-one basis. It tore my heart to wave good-bye to Mom from her bedroom window - did she do that with you all? Say good-bye upstairs, then :race" to her bedroom and knock on the bedroom window, as she leaned on her walker, wave good-bye? How touching - a Mother's love will always be within.
A stresfull month has passed. Today is 7/15, her surgery was 6/20, but I know on 6/15 I was stressing out on the outcome and unknown results. It's over, recovery still in process, but worries over. Collectively, we all did it. Each one of us should be patted on the back - job well done.
Now Chuck - it's in your hands - what happens now to this Blog?!?!?
Rondah & Chuck - BRAVO! You both were the absolute best choice to getting Mom to the hospital, being there for the surgery, and being there for Dad. Rondah - you were able to calm both M&D because of your past surgical experiece, provide emotional and physical strength through her toughest times, and provide the "tools" needed to get her through this. Chuck - you were instrumental in helping Dad understand and comprehend what's happening, calming his nerves, and preparing this Blog! There couldn't have been a better choice here. Thank you so much for pulling the first week. You helped the sibblings as well calming us in knowing and understanding what she's going through.
Sheilah - In my opinion, the absolute person to be with Mom and Dad during her 1st week home. Again, couldn't have been a better plan! I know Mom was reassured you were there - you eased her mind on the sutures, meds, sugar content, her weight, etc. You met her surgeon which made all of us (and Dad) glad and comforted in knowing he did good. Understand you met Dr. Moore and was able to talk with her. Your medical expertise has played a huge part in this and we're all greatful for that as well. Thank you, too, for getting the Handicap Placard (it was you, right?) as they so needed that, that first change of bed linens and shopping. Oh, can't forget your love of those hickory nuts, and your worthy instructional lessons from Chuck on the workings of an Ipod! We all enjoyed watching (and hearing) how you've masterfully accomplished that skill! And by the way, you should know, Mom does look forward to your daily calls - it comforts her, it really does!
Patrick - you may have felt awarkward, but believe me, Mom told me numerous times how much you helped them out! It was good to have a guy there for Dad - he appreciated that, too. During your duty, you started taking time off, giving them more freedom which I think was the start of their next road to recovery. That proved well - timing was perfect. You got to do duties that helped them out, which proved she was getting back to normal by now. Thank you for bringing Andrew with you so they could enjoy not only their son, but their grandson! Got their mind off a few things with Andrew there! The only concern Mom had was your long drive home from Atlanta in one trip!!! You know that - I saw Mom's anxiety not knowing if you got home safely or not! But once you called to say you made it home - instant relief! And, the fact that the Cubs beat Atlanta made Dad happy!!! Oh, tell Andrew that I, too, heard the little pitter-patter of the mice feet in the basement ceiling!
My turn was actually a cooking experience! I really believe Mom enjoyed "teaching" me how to cook! I made (with Mom's instructional guidance) two meals which turned out wonderful. My "tour" was actually uneventful, mostly daily chores which got her and Dad back on track. Grocery shopping, liquor store run, laundry, bed changing, linens, ironing, plant watering, deck sweeping, but more importantly, sharing moments watching 4th of July parade (twice!) and Boston Fireworks. She really enjoyed that. Lived through a severe storm which unfortunatly killed 2 people on Abrams Falls (tree fell on them during hike when freak storm hit), and the total destruction of Sieverville's Douglas Dam Marina. Thankfully no power outages in Gatlinburg, but brought to mind what would happen if they did lose power - no fridge, freezer, lights, etc. My duty was to strengthen Mom in using the Sticks - keep her on the walker for balance, but start strenghening her on the sticks. Knowing we had just 2 more child-support visits, I wanted her to know how to use the sticks comfortably.
Mike - another Son visit - I instantly saw how Dad took to you. He really does like having male companionship. Perfect timing, again! We couldn't have planned this any better! You presented them more privacy than any one of us had. You stayed at the hotel all the time, giving them insight to what life was going to be like in one more week. You fixed my errors (by replacing the sink nozzle....thank you, thank you, thank you!), and provided support when needed. Most importantly - thank you for bringing both of them to church on Sunday. Mom hadn't been to mass in quite a long time and she so desparately wanted to go. Sorry your breakfast wasn't the best (those dang kids at McD's, hah? Gving you an empty breakfast container). Best it happened to you than Dad! And Marciah so appreaciates you picking her up at the airport. That was a blessing in itself. Glad you made it home and can relax your injured leg. Surprised you made the entire trip without letting word out to them you were in a plastic cast!
And Marciah - our last caregiver. Oh my gosh, it seems like you got the worst of the deal with all the mice issues! Your blogs were so comical! Eee-gads! You are so brave to tackle and deal with those "things"! You had bathroom duty, and am so sorry the Sarge was watching over you! Great comment to Mom about the cleaning lady will only wash the toliet once and that they're pros who know how to do this! You must have worked the hardest to work up a sweat! I never got to that point! But you know, I think you're "job" must have been an important one, too, because you knew you were the last care-giver. That meant you had to make sure Mom and Dad were comfortable on their own from this point on. You have to ensure all of us that Mom is "good to go", or that she has most of her strength back, and that before you left, that all was in it's rightful place ready to continue on. You brough humor to all by writing of mom's crazy go-cart rides in the grocery store - that was great! I would have never thought of doing that! Great job!
I can only speak for myself - when I left them, I had a tear in my eye and a lump in my throat. I muffled a sob as I hugged them good-bye. Mike was witness to that. I had a wonderful experience with them, I'm glad I was able to be there on a one-to-one basis. It tore my heart to wave good-bye to Mom from her bedroom window - did she do that with you all? Say good-bye upstairs, then :race" to her bedroom and knock on the bedroom window, as she leaned on her walker, wave good-bye? How touching - a Mother's love will always be within.
A stresfull month has passed. Today is 7/15, her surgery was 6/20, but I know on 6/15 I was stressing out on the outcome and unknown results. It's over, recovery still in process, but worries over. Collectively, we all did it. Each one of us should be patted on the back - job well done.
Now Chuck - it's in your hands - what happens now to this Blog?!?!?
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Mouse source...
...and dryer problems. After talking to Pat yesterday I checked out the dryer vent issue. Sounds like there is history of clothes taking a while to dry. Apparently Chuck found the outdoor screen vent and closed it. Pat later found it clogged with lint outdoors.
Mom absolutely insisted that screen stay closed, so after my load today I went out and found it was again covered with lint after 1 single load.
I pulled back the dryer and pulled some lint from the tubing and reattached it to the dryer...however, in the process I found a huge pile of mouse turds and sunflower shells and other 'stuff'. I vacuumed it up, and made sure mom saw what was going on as they have an exterminator that comes once a month. I sent text pics to Sheilah, Norah, and rondah. Mom was so insistent that i push the dryer as far back as it was... but this time I stood up to her and told her it was so close to the wall the venting was compressed and I think it was causing lint to get trapped within it. She hung her head in her hands, I mean seriously, I'm talking about a 3 inch diff! I am sure you all can relate.
Finally, about phone calls. As much as mom LOVES then, dad detests them. She carries the hand set wherever she goes in order to catch it on the first half ring. I told Sheilah she needs a phone holster! Quick Draw LaVerne.
I would discourage anyone calling between 1 & 3:30--as that is their rolling nap times, also not much after 8 p.m. Better yet, send a letter. Dad does like those!
Ok, gonna lay low now in fear I discover another problem in this old house! This has been quite an experience...a bit tense and crotchety at times, but overall a goodnone, and I am glad I came.
Tomorrow morning: fresh brewed coffee!
Over and (soon) out!
March
Mom absolutely insisted that screen stay closed, so after my load today I went out and found it was again covered with lint after 1 single load.
I pulled back the dryer and pulled some lint from the tubing and reattached it to the dryer...however, in the process I found a huge pile of mouse turds and sunflower shells and other 'stuff'. I vacuumed it up, and made sure mom saw what was going on as they have an exterminator that comes once a month. I sent text pics to Sheilah, Norah, and rondah. Mom was so insistent that i push the dryer as far back as it was... but this time I stood up to her and told her it was so close to the wall the venting was compressed and I think it was causing lint to get trapped within it. She hung her head in her hands, I mean seriously, I'm talking about a 3 inch diff! I am sure you all can relate.
Finally, about phone calls. As much as mom LOVES then, dad detests them. She carries the hand set wherever she goes in order to catch it on the first half ring. I told Sheilah she needs a phone holster! Quick Draw LaVerne.
I would discourage anyone calling between 1 & 3:30--as that is their rolling nap times, also not much after 8 p.m. Better yet, send a letter. Dad does like those!
Ok, gonna lay low now in fear I discover another problem in this old house! This has been quite an experience...a bit tense and crotchety at times, but overall a goodnone, and I am glad I came.
Tomorrow morning: fresh brewed coffee!
Over and (soon) out!
March
Friday, July 13, 2012
Mouse in the house?
EEEK! When I moved the basement lazy boy to vacuum today, I discovered stuffing (perfect nesting material) and mouse droppings. Laid a super-sonic sticky surface in the corner, vacuumed the area and ran for my life!
Today was PT (I stayed in the front lobby in trying to segue mom to independence). She is now down to 2 rehab appts next week...dad will be happy about that. Mom is doing very well with the sticks, but still favors the walker in the house. She seems to be comfortable going up and down the stairs and is doing so a couple times a day...she moved like a gazelle to check out the mouse turds! One thing I noticed about the stairs is that they are not to code. They have a very short
depth, none of our feet fit on them. This is a bit dangerous.
Today we also hit up Food City for refills. She was pretty independent getting out of the car, walking in, and getting to her electronic go-cart (she tends to take the entire aisle, and hugs the corners tight...it is thrilling to watch. Figure the store has insurance). I feel she's good to go on wednesday to shop with dad.
It has rained a TON since being here...literally no oppty to do anything outside.
Think we're going to order a pizza for free delivery tomorrow before I leave. If they like it, they have a local source for delivery on a future date night!
A couple things I learned since being here: Food City freeze-dried instant coffee isn't 'that' bad...and if I don't see another CSI, Castle, Person of Interest, or any other investigative show, it will be a-ok with me!
24-hours and my shift will be over, they will be on their own. Not really sure how ready dad is for this, but such is life.
Signing off!
Marciah
P.S Norah, prob won't call that service from here...mom is super keyed in to what I'm doing, but will find that number to call from home.
Today was PT (I stayed in the front lobby in trying to segue mom to independence). She is now down to 2 rehab appts next week...dad will be happy about that. Mom is doing very well with the sticks, but still favors the walker in the house. She seems to be comfortable going up and down the stairs and is doing so a couple times a day...she moved like a gazelle to check out the mouse turds! One thing I noticed about the stairs is that they are not to code. They have a very short
depth, none of our feet fit on them. This is a bit dangerous.
Today we also hit up Food City for refills. She was pretty independent getting out of the car, walking in, and getting to her electronic go-cart (she tends to take the entire aisle, and hugs the corners tight...it is thrilling to watch. Figure the store has insurance). I feel she's good to go on wednesday to shop with dad.
It has rained a TON since being here...literally no oppty to do anything outside.
Think we're going to order a pizza for free delivery tomorrow before I leave. If they like it, they have a local source for delivery on a future date night!
A couple things I learned since being here: Food City freeze-dried instant coffee isn't 'that' bad...and if I don't see another CSI, Castle, Person of Interest, or any other investigative show, it will be a-ok with me!
24-hours and my shift will be over, they will be on their own. Not really sure how ready dad is for this, but such is life.
Signing off!
Marciah
P.S Norah, prob won't call that service from here...mom is super keyed in to what I'm doing, but will find that number to call from home.
Mike at Home
I made it home uneventful. Listened to my USB, so have two more CDs left for the third book. I was really relaxed even though I drove through rain past Jackson TN, then the weather cleared. I still enjoy long drives.
As a point of interest, when I was there, Dad told me about SCHAS and how they charged him $42 to lean the house because he is relatively well off. I saw a commercial about them and then looked them up on the internet. I think it will be a Great Resaource if Mom can let go a little.
As a point of interest, when I was there, Dad told me about SCHAS and how they charged him $42 to lean the house because he is relatively well off. I saw a commercial about them and then looked them up on the internet. I think it will be a Great Resaource if Mom can let go a little.
Thursday, July 12, 2012
Travel Assistance
Marciah - I didn't bring this with me when I was there, but if you care to, give Schas a call (that's the company that's referred to her by her doc). They have "delivery service" for those in need. They are at 865.544.1710. If Mom needs to be driven to the hospital because Dad can't do so, these guys can. But don't know the logistics - do they need 1 day advance? Is there a cost? Do they wait till appt is over? Ask Mom for the brochure - it's very definately NOT a quality brochure
, it's in her medical folder, but it is a company that services the "handicapped" - be it simple care taking, driving, home care, house care, cleaning services, etc. I don't know if Mom would make the call herself....just putttin' it out there.
Loved your cleaning insight! Kinda chuckled! I can just see her there telling you how to do it! You're doing a great job! I'm sure you'll be sad in some small way after you leave....I know I was. Kinda sad leaving Mom - I know she is enjoying the female companionship!
, it's in her medical folder, but it is a company that services the "handicapped" - be it simple care taking, driving, home care, house care, cleaning services, etc. I don't know if Mom would make the call herself....just putttin' it out there.
Loved your cleaning insight! Kinda chuckled! I can just see her there telling you how to do it! You're doing a great job! I'm sure you'll be sad in some small way after you leave....I know I was. Kinda sad leaving Mom - I know she is enjoying the female companionship!
Bathroom Cleaning: 500-level!
Apparently I'm still at the 100-level of cleaning bathrooms. Mom watched me like a hawk...she has many unusual cleaning tactics. Thankfully I was well prepared and did everything she asked (however she did mutter "I usually do the toilet twice"--which I obliged).
Thankfully I wore my Nike dry-fit t-shirt because I sweat up a storm, partially due to nerves and my elevated b.p...and partially due to the sheer physical exertion!
I explained to her that the cleaners coming in the future MAY have different ways of doing things, and they are professionals! And, she might feel better not watching over them.
On a similar note, the plumber came to fix an apparent toilet leak...which he found no evidence of a prob, but replaced the 30-year-old seal. I convinced them that was a good idea anyway, so it wasn't a wasted trip. Let me just say mom REALLY enjoyed the company, and watched over his work carefully. Pretty sure she's got the next seal covered independently!
Off to transfer the sheets, think I aced linen changing...apparently my strong suit!
Thankfully I wore my Nike dry-fit t-shirt because I sweat up a storm, partially due to nerves and my elevated b.p...and partially due to the sheer physical exertion!
I explained to her that the cleaners coming in the future MAY have different ways of doing things, and they are professionals! And, she might feel better not watching over them.
On a similar note, the plumber came to fix an apparent toilet leak...which he found no evidence of a prob, but replaced the 30-year-old seal. I convinced them that was a good idea anyway, so it wasn't a wasted trip. Let me just say mom REALLY enjoyed the company, and watched over his work carefully. Pretty sure she's got the next seal covered independently!
Off to transfer the sheets, think I aced linen changing...apparently my strong suit!
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Marciah's In 'da House!
Things are going really well here. Got in yesterday (Tuesday) around 10:30 a.m., and Mike was able to pick me up and bring me to mom and dad's. I got a good orientation on the ride back...he left to go home 10 minutes after dropping me off.At this point mom and dad want to get there own breakfast, and most of their lunch. I am trying to balance supportive care while staying out of their way! Am trying to assess what support they may need in the future.Food shopping today, I got mom driving the electric cart. That went very well, she saw a couple of friends...and was happy to share her tales with the stock boy, deli girl, check out girl and bagger.PT today, they are upping her reps and are advising her to do pt at home sittingon a chair vs her bed.Tons of rain here today and yesterday, outside work is out. Mom seems to enjoy the help in the kitchen preparing dinner and cleaning up after. Dad even helped me with dishes tonight...i think he sees the writing on the wall when I leave saturday at 5.Thanks to chuck for talking me through this. I'm an official blogger now, thanks to my trusty I-pad and 3G!Will see what Thursday brings!marciah
Monday, July 9, 2012
Mike's Last Post
This occurred four days after what Norah just posted, so just take note.
M&D told me not to come in at 8:00 this morning. I had to take Mom to PT at 2PM. So, they told me to come in at 10:00.
I took Mom to the Post Office- Rondah the gowns are heading back to you! Priority!
Mom when to PT and Did Great! The PT Specialist was amazed. Mom walked with the sticks tremendously. They took her outside and she aced it. Up and down hills, up and down curbs EVERYTHING!. They are planning to terminate her PT on the 20th after her appointment with Dr. Whitman (?). The specialist suggested Mom ditch the walker except in the kitchen when she is carrying things and needs a more stable support. In a week, it should be a stick.
I ate at the Peddler and did souvenir shopping tonight came back at 6:30 and M&D did the dishes and were watching Wheel of Fortune or Jeopardy. Marciah called and gave me her itinerary and she'll betaking over at noon tomorrow. Then I am driving 22 hours home (in 2 days).
Mom is doing great and Dad is picking up the slack (but mutters that Mom is bossy and shouldn't get used to him helping as much as he is).
This was more vacation than working. That is good, I really didn't strain my torn calf and they didn't notice the limp on the stairs or when I was vacuuming or blowing the driveway.
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Norah's Overview from July 2 - July 7
Ahh-Haa! I'm in! Can do this at home, but not on my laptop!!!
Arrived Monday at 11am, just 2 short hours after Patrick and Andrew left. They both greeted me warmly. Didn't read the "blue book" for 3 hours till Dad said, "Are you going to read the book?" I said, i will. He said, "You have to read the book, you'll find out how to take care of us!" I told him "I will!". I reminded him that I was the rebel of the family and that if he wanted to do anything outside this book, go for it! At that time, he said "Read the book. You need to know what to do to take care of Mother." So, I read the book, and found most everything on paper was already conversed to me on phone! But, it made Dad happy!
Let's see....Monday - what did I do (it's 7 days later right now....!)? Reheated Rondah's pizza for dinner, helped Mom with here exercises (Pat, you're right, her 2 second count is really 1 second!), walked the deck with her, unpacked, pretty much took it easy Monday. Oh, forgot - I broke the kitchen sink spricket! Dad's comment: "Goddammit, why does every person who comes here break something?" Also found that (although they can't hear fire detector battery beeps, they CAN hear cell phone beeps! Dad got angry because my cell phone beeped ONCE! I learned at that moment to turn off cell phone - put it on vibrate or on complete silence.
Tuesday, 7/3 - woke for breakfast at 7:30am (every morning). Mom pretty much had everything ready. NO TALKING DURING BREAKFAST! They have to listen to their FOX news at 8am. Did breakfast dishs and laundry before noon. Laundry was so funny! Had to toss all clothes down the stairs, then separate into 3 piles. Mom had to SHOUT the "stains" out of their whites! Picture that! Too funny! While loads of laundry are running, we stay downstairs and read books! Mom sits on the couch with Grandma's red/blue blanket on her lap - it's her "comfort" blanket, she's comforted by it knowing Grandma is there with her! Wow - was taken aback by that! Was so glad to hear she keeps her Mother close by!
Went with Dad shopping - he drove. He's good, but has little (or shoudl I say NO) patience! Marciah - if you drive with him - accept the fact that he feels NO ONE should be on the road with him. It's everyone elses fault for being on the road! He owns it!
While in the basement, heard mice clipping along on the dropped ceiling in Dad's den. Didn't know what it was at first, but when I found out Andrew heard them, I confirmed same! No need to worry - they won't sneak down!
Lunch prep ALWAYS begins at 11:30, eat at Noon. No change to that!
Went to PT at 1pm, met Melody - great gal! Mom loves to gab at PT! And Melody is extremely patient with her! Mom needs to STOP TWISTING at the waist. Marciah - if you're getting anything out of this, STOP her from twisting at the waist. The screws aren't solidified in the bone yet. Mom also needs to stand straight on the walker (tends to lean), but is getting better! She also needs to start learning the sticks. She's reminded me that surgery was just 18 days ago and that she's to be on the walker for a long period of time, but she's healing excellently! She should stay on the walker, BUT, start practicing with the sticks more! She used them on the stairs twice - did well, but she doesn't have a comfort level yet. Dad wants her to drop the walker and get with the sticks, but he's not the one who's losing his balance....so we need to gently coax her to practice more with the sticks.
Took Mom to Sevierville on Tuesday - wanted to get her out of the house. She like that. She enjoyed the drive, the normalcy of being out. IF you take her out, take a pillow to put behind her back so her incision isn't rubbing the back of the car seat.
Lost track of where I am.....don't have a book to remind me what I did, but did write it in the blue book!
Mom had friends come visit on Wednesday: Elizabeth, Mildred and Roy. Roy wanted to visit with Dad, took a lot to get Dad upstairs, but once he did, he was a pefect gentleman. Mom so enjoyed the visit - had me go out and buy a cheesecake for the little gathering.
Thursday was another day at PT. She really is doing well.
Cooking: Mom is great at telling you what to do and where to go to get things! You may turn your back and roll your eyes, but you gotta give her credit - she knows exactly where things are and how to do it! You'll even learn from her! They save everything, too!
All in all - they are doing well. Although there were 2 days Mom took tranquelizers: the day her friends came, and the day I left. The day I left, she told me Dad has absolutely NO idea on how to pay bills. If anything happened to her, the bills would NOT get paid. I asked her to put her accountant in charge, she said no. I told her to give the responsibility to one of the kids to pay everything on-line. Even bank on line. What we finally came up with is she's putting a list together of all bills she pays: cable, water, heat, phone, grass cutters, doctors, etc (about 15 names) and will list account numbers, phone numbers, city/state. I don't know who will get this, but I started it for her the day I left. I don't understand why that came up, but it is concerning her. Sheilah - maybe you can take the lead here and ask Mom if she's started working on the "steno book" Norah started up to list all her bill-paying accounts.
I changed Mom's bandages twice - and BOTH times each bandage was clean! No spotting, no seepage - perfectly clean! It relieved her to no end!!!
Mom HAS been gaining weight! She loves yogart, smoothies, milk. She gained 3 pounds the week I was there. i left 2 smoothies for her after I left. One for Mike and one for Marciah.
Oh, I checked with Food City and called PeaPod. PeaPod does not have any affiliations in TN. Food City doesn't have a delivery service, and I asked PT Melody if there is any service where food delivery is offered. She said nothing in Gatlinburg (so if anyone wants to set up a business, here's an opportunity!).
I checked their shower - Mom showered by herself. Dad came in and washed her back. Their shower is very small, and is rounded. No straight walls, all walls have curves. There ARE two soap dishes in the wall that they hold onto for support. I held on to them as well to ensure it's a good hand support - only problem is that there is NO lip to the soap dishes, it's just a knotch in the wall (for soap), but nothing to prevent them from slipping. It's an "L" shap knotch, but without a lip, their fingers can slip from it. However, it IS bettehr than nothing.
Dad brought up a good point about the stair lifts - it comes out 14" from the side of the wall - that's 14" taken away from them coming up the stairs. He doesn't like that. I don't know if the lift is necessary. Sure, it's a great idea for the purpose it's meant for, but they both use the stair rails to pull themselves up. Those rails are built very well and are a great support.
The bringing groceries upstairs is the big concern - here's what I told Mom: Hire the maid Olgel's use (a Spanish gal). On the day the maid is there, go shopping. Have the maid bring up the groceries. She's considering. Their hired help stole a knick-knack from Mom's dresser on the one and only day they had her and they stopped the service. Now considering next-door neighbor's (Ogle) maid.
If OJ is to heavy - told them to buy frozen concentrate. Mom said, "hmm, that's an idea".
Mom is getting buy in the kitchen pretty well. You'd be surprised how well she's doing! Marciah - you're the last one there. You need to:
I was glad to have spent my 5 days with them (Mon thru Sat). I was sad to leave Mom - I think she really enjoyed my company. We had many heart-to-hearts, and I think she had fun! She was able to talk frank with me. It was good time, well spent.
Arrived Monday at 11am, just 2 short hours after Patrick and Andrew left. They both greeted me warmly. Didn't read the "blue book" for 3 hours till Dad said, "Are you going to read the book?" I said, i will. He said, "You have to read the book, you'll find out how to take care of us!" I told him "I will!". I reminded him that I was the rebel of the family and that if he wanted to do anything outside this book, go for it! At that time, he said "Read the book. You need to know what to do to take care of Mother." So, I read the book, and found most everything on paper was already conversed to me on phone! But, it made Dad happy!
Let's see....Monday - what did I do (it's 7 days later right now....!)? Reheated Rondah's pizza for dinner, helped Mom with here exercises (Pat, you're right, her 2 second count is really 1 second!), walked the deck with her, unpacked, pretty much took it easy Monday. Oh, forgot - I broke the kitchen sink spricket! Dad's comment: "Goddammit, why does every person who comes here break something?" Also found that (although they can't hear fire detector battery beeps, they CAN hear cell phone beeps! Dad got angry because my cell phone beeped ONCE! I learned at that moment to turn off cell phone - put it on vibrate or on complete silence.
Tuesday, 7/3 - woke for breakfast at 7:30am (every morning). Mom pretty much had everything ready. NO TALKING DURING BREAKFAST! They have to listen to their FOX news at 8am. Did breakfast dishs and laundry before noon. Laundry was so funny! Had to toss all clothes down the stairs, then separate into 3 piles. Mom had to SHOUT the "stains" out of their whites! Picture that! Too funny! While loads of laundry are running, we stay downstairs and read books! Mom sits on the couch with Grandma's red/blue blanket on her lap - it's her "comfort" blanket, she's comforted by it knowing Grandma is there with her! Wow - was taken aback by that! Was so glad to hear she keeps her Mother close by!
Went with Dad shopping - he drove. He's good, but has little (or shoudl I say NO) patience! Marciah - if you drive with him - accept the fact that he feels NO ONE should be on the road with him. It's everyone elses fault for being on the road! He owns it!
While in the basement, heard mice clipping along on the dropped ceiling in Dad's den. Didn't know what it was at first, but when I found out Andrew heard them, I confirmed same! No need to worry - they won't sneak down!
Lunch prep ALWAYS begins at 11:30, eat at Noon. No change to that!
Went to PT at 1pm, met Melody - great gal! Mom loves to gab at PT! And Melody is extremely patient with her! Mom needs to STOP TWISTING at the waist. Marciah - if you're getting anything out of this, STOP her from twisting at the waist. The screws aren't solidified in the bone yet. Mom also needs to stand straight on the walker (tends to lean), but is getting better! She also needs to start learning the sticks. She's reminded me that surgery was just 18 days ago and that she's to be on the walker for a long period of time, but she's healing excellently! She should stay on the walker, BUT, start practicing with the sticks more! She used them on the stairs twice - did well, but she doesn't have a comfort level yet. Dad wants her to drop the walker and get with the sticks, but he's not the one who's losing his balance....so we need to gently coax her to practice more with the sticks.
Took Mom to Sevierville on Tuesday - wanted to get her out of the house. She like that. She enjoyed the drive, the normalcy of being out. IF you take her out, take a pillow to put behind her back so her incision isn't rubbing the back of the car seat.
Lost track of where I am.....don't have a book to remind me what I did, but did write it in the blue book!
Mom had friends come visit on Wednesday: Elizabeth, Mildred and Roy. Roy wanted to visit with Dad, took a lot to get Dad upstairs, but once he did, he was a pefect gentleman. Mom so enjoyed the visit - had me go out and buy a cheesecake for the little gathering.
Thursday was another day at PT. She really is doing well.
Cooking: Mom is great at telling you what to do and where to go to get things! You may turn your back and roll your eyes, but you gotta give her credit - she knows exactly where things are and how to do it! You'll even learn from her! They save everything, too!
All in all - they are doing well. Although there were 2 days Mom took tranquelizers: the day her friends came, and the day I left. The day I left, she told me Dad has absolutely NO idea on how to pay bills. If anything happened to her, the bills would NOT get paid. I asked her to put her accountant in charge, she said no. I told her to give the responsibility to one of the kids to pay everything on-line. Even bank on line. What we finally came up with is she's putting a list together of all bills she pays: cable, water, heat, phone, grass cutters, doctors, etc (about 15 names) and will list account numbers, phone numbers, city/state. I don't know who will get this, but I started it for her the day I left. I don't understand why that came up, but it is concerning her. Sheilah - maybe you can take the lead here and ask Mom if she's started working on the "steno book" Norah started up to list all her bill-paying accounts.
I changed Mom's bandages twice - and BOTH times each bandage was clean! No spotting, no seepage - perfectly clean! It relieved her to no end!!!
Mom HAS been gaining weight! She loves yogart, smoothies, milk. She gained 3 pounds the week I was there. i left 2 smoothies for her after I left. One for Mike and one for Marciah.
Oh, I checked with Food City and called PeaPod. PeaPod does not have any affiliations in TN. Food City doesn't have a delivery service, and I asked PT Melody if there is any service where food delivery is offered. She said nothing in Gatlinburg (so if anyone wants to set up a business, here's an opportunity!).
I checked their shower - Mom showered by herself. Dad came in and washed her back. Their shower is very small, and is rounded. No straight walls, all walls have curves. There ARE two soap dishes in the wall that they hold onto for support. I held on to them as well to ensure it's a good hand support - only problem is that there is NO lip to the soap dishes, it's just a knotch in the wall (for soap), but nothing to prevent them from slipping. It's an "L" shap knotch, but without a lip, their fingers can slip from it. However, it IS bettehr than nothing.
Dad brought up a good point about the stair lifts - it comes out 14" from the side of the wall - that's 14" taken away from them coming up the stairs. He doesn't like that. I don't know if the lift is necessary. Sure, it's a great idea for the purpose it's meant for, but they both use the stair rails to pull themselves up. Those rails are built very well and are a great support.
The bringing groceries upstairs is the big concern - here's what I told Mom: Hire the maid Olgel's use (a Spanish gal). On the day the maid is there, go shopping. Have the maid bring up the groceries. She's considering. Their hired help stole a knick-knack from Mom's dresser on the one and only day they had her and they stopped the service. Now considering next-door neighbor's (Ogle) maid.
If OJ is to heavy - told them to buy frozen concentrate. Mom said, "hmm, that's an idea".
Mom is getting buy in the kitchen pretty well. You'd be surprised how well she's doing! Marciah - you're the last one there. You need to:
- Ensure she doesn't twist
- Help her with the sticks - not to replace the walker, just to get her comfortable to use them
- Help her lift kitchen items - she shouldn't be lifting and putting excess weight on her back
- Give her encouragement - remind her how well she's doing
- Remind Dad that Mom isn't 100% balanced yet - she needs the walker to keep her balance
- Sweep the deck daily
- Blow the driveway so she can ge in/out of the car
- Walk the stairs with her - be in front when going down, and behind when going up
- Cook or watch her cook
- bring lots of books because there is lots of quiet time
- Ignore Dad's continuous degradation of people - Dad is still Dad - he puts down every person he sees on TV or on the road. Sad, I wish he had more kindness in him.
I was glad to have spent my 5 days with them (Mon thru Sat). I was sad to leave Mom - I think she really enjoyed my company. We had many heart-to-hearts, and I think she had fun! She was able to talk frank with me. It was good time, well spent.
Sunday Night
I bet you all are getting tired of my vacation down here! I came back and Mom did the sheets and towels and all I needed to do was dry and fold. She is getting around almost normal. She is still a little dependent on the walker, and Dad thinks it is because she doesn't have motivation to ge off of it. I think I agree with Dad. I overheard her talking to Dr. Pat and she said she was told that she'd be on the walker for 8 weeks, so she isover half way through.
Cooked Mexican Meatloaf. Marciah, don't worry if you don't cook, she'll tell you everything you need to do and know. Doing it her way is the easiest thing to do. Also, thank Patrick. e convinced Dad that using the dishwasher is an okay thing to do. I rinsed tonight's dishes in preparation to washt htem by hand. Dad came in and said to put them in the dishwasher. Patrick did it twice and now Dad likes it because he doesn't have to dry.
Tomorrow I get to sleep in. They don't want me back until 10:00AM because I have to tak Mom to PT in the early afternoon. Marciah- Bring Plenty to Read!!! The thing they like is Peace and Quiet.
Cooked Mexican Meatloaf. Marciah, don't worry if you don't cook, she'll tell you everything you need to do and know. Doing it her way is the easiest thing to do. Also, thank Patrick. e convinced Dad that using the dishwasher is an okay thing to do. I rinsed tonight's dishes in preparation to washt htem by hand. Dad came in and said to put them in the dishwasher. Patrick did it twice and now Dad likes it because he doesn't have to dry.
Tomorrow I get to sleep in. They don't want me back until 10:00AM because I have to tak Mom to PT in the early afternoon. Marciah- Bring Plenty to Read!!! The thing they like is Peace and Quiet.
Sunday Morning
Went to Church this morning. Got home at 8:25 and they were ready to go. Mom walked down the stairs through the garage to my Explorer. WITH THE STICKS!!!!! She then walked from the parking space (not a handicap one since I didn't bring it with me) up the stairs into the pew. At communion, she took one of the two, held onto Dad's arm and went to communion. She then went back to the car. Dad wanted to reward her, so to McDonalds we went. They both ordered Suasage Biscuits with Eggs and we went home. We got home and all she got was a biscuit with out sausage and eggs. I was going to go back and argue, but mom said she would just put butter and jam. I left at 11:45 because I had to get something at Ace for the afternoon and they were closed until 12:30. Don't they know my work morning ends at noon?
Saturday, July 7, 2012
2nd Shift Saturday 7/7
Had Corned Beef Hash W/Poached Egg. Open two cans of Corned Beef, put in Pyrex Dish and bake at 350 for 30 minutes. Put a depression in the corned beef for each egg. Put a raw egg in depression and bake for 15 minutes more until egg white is firm.
Watched Cubs with Dad, ate, did dishes, watched dishes (Mom dried!) watched Lawrence Welk and went home at 8:00 PM. Dad seemed happy for me to go- it is back to his routine! Momwas cool about it.
Last night Norah got me hooked for wanting a McFlurry. Went to McDonald's on the way home and their ice cream machine was broken. I found an Ice Cream place across the street from the Hotel (Fairfield Inn & Suites). A (at least 4 scoop) waffle cone for $3.32! I am happy!
Tomorrow is Church, Dad wants me there at 8:29 AM so we can leave at 8:30.
Watched Cubs with Dad, ate, did dishes, watched dishes (Mom dried!) watched Lawrence Welk and went home at 8:00 PM. Dad seemed happy for me to go- it is back to his routine! Momwas cool about it.
Last night Norah got me hooked for wanting a McFlurry. Went to McDonald's on the way home and their ice cream machine was broken. I found an Ice Cream place across the street from the Hotel (Fairfield Inn & Suites). A (at least 4 scoop) waffle cone for $3.32! I am happy!
Tomorrow is Church, Dad wants me there at 8:29 AM so we can leave at 8:30.
Mike's 1st Four Hour Shift!
Mike Here!
I arrived last night at 7:30 PM. Went to the houe and read the "book". Marciah, read the book first thing. Dad wants everyone to read the book. It was the second thing he said after "Hi". Mom looks Great, but is depending on the walker too much (according to Dad). Wen tto the hotel room at 1000 PM.
I showed up at the house at 8:00 AM and Norah left at 9:00. After stripping the beds and bringing them down to the laundry room, Mom wanted me to blow down the driveway, so I did. When I finished, I started shoveling the compost off the street (the leaves never cleared the street, so there is four feet of leaves and compsot upt three feet deep on the edge of the street). The compost is so good, I am tempted to buy some plastic buckets and bring it back to Albuquerque. While doing this, Dad came out to check the mail. He asked, What the hell I was doing. I told him and he said he'd rather I fix the sprayer that was broken on the kitchen sink, so Mom can wash her hair. I told him Mom said that H&L was going to come out and fix it. He asked if I knew how and I said yes, screw off the nozzle and put a new one on. He said then do it!.
While fixing it, Mom asked if it was done yet. How cute!! After fixing it, I asked if they wanted me to stay in the hotel or at the house. Dad said it was up to Mom. Mom asked what was the benefit for me staying at the hotel, and I said a bigger bathroom, nicer shower and more comfortable bed. I also said they can get back to a normal life. They said stay at the hotel and that my "work hours" are 8:00 to 12:30 and 4:00 to 8:00.
I didn't tell them I tore my calf muscle or tendon in my calf three weeks ago. I have a Cam walking boot on it most of the time. When I drove cross country, it felt great, and I didn't bother changing back into the boot until I stopped for the night. It felt okay when working today. I was a little unsteady on the stairs, but by the time I left, I was doing okay. Mom & Dad didn't notice the limp. Now I get to soak it in a hot tub twice a day when I am back at t he hotel and rest with the leg up. I now notice how hot the laptops get when they are on your laptop.
Well, I am heading back to the house for my second four hour shift. I plan to pick up some pictures and convert them but will try to blog between shifts.
I arrived last night at 7:30 PM. Went to the houe and read the "book". Marciah, read the book first thing. Dad wants everyone to read the book. It was the second thing he said after "Hi". Mom looks Great, but is depending on the walker too much (according to Dad). Wen tto the hotel room at 1000 PM.
I showed up at the house at 8:00 AM and Norah left at 9:00. After stripping the beds and bringing them down to the laundry room, Mom wanted me to blow down the driveway, so I did. When I finished, I started shoveling the compost off the street (the leaves never cleared the street, so there is four feet of leaves and compsot upt three feet deep on the edge of the street). The compost is so good, I am tempted to buy some plastic buckets and bring it back to Albuquerque. While doing this, Dad came out to check the mail. He asked, What the hell I was doing. I told him and he said he'd rather I fix the sprayer that was broken on the kitchen sink, so Mom can wash her hair. I told him Mom said that H&L was going to come out and fix it. He asked if I knew how and I said yes, screw off the nozzle and put a new one on. He said then do it!.
While fixing it, Mom asked if it was done yet. How cute!! After fixing it, I asked if they wanted me to stay in the hotel or at the house. Dad said it was up to Mom. Mom asked what was the benefit for me staying at the hotel, and I said a bigger bathroom, nicer shower and more comfortable bed. I also said they can get back to a normal life. They said stay at the hotel and that my "work hours" are 8:00 to 12:30 and 4:00 to 8:00.
I didn't tell them I tore my calf muscle or tendon in my calf three weeks ago. I have a Cam walking boot on it most of the time. When I drove cross country, it felt great, and I didn't bother changing back into the boot until I stopped for the night. It felt okay when working today. I was a little unsteady on the stairs, but by the time I left, I was doing okay. Mom & Dad didn't notice the limp. Now I get to soak it in a hot tub twice a day when I am back at t he hotel and rest with the leg up. I now notice how hot the laptops get when they are on your laptop.
Well, I am heading back to the house for my second four hour shift. I plan to pick up some pictures and convert them but will try to blog between shifts.
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Bailey Update POD# 4 Pictures
Pictures of Bailey on day 4 after surgery. :(. He does seem to be getting stronger every day. Two weeks of restricted activity - no running, jumping, walks, etc.... Bailey has to wear the cone of shame so he doesn't chew on his incision. After two weeks, he gets to do daily physical therapy with the Salt Lake Chuck. Hopefully, he will be able to take his favorite hike to Dog Lake in September. As much as he hates the cone of shame, he never gives us the finger or should I say paw. Like Laverne, he will growl or bark at us when he becomes frustrated. Too bad Laverne and Bailey can't recover together. It has been much harder to take care of Bailey then Laverne and Fred after the first few days of surgery. 
Monday, July 2, 2012
July 2
Just talked to Norah and Mom. Pat & Andrew left at 10 am and Norah arrived at 11 am, good timing! She's reading through the Blue Book to see what she's been missing. It took her 12 hours to drive in (left Sunday 10 am but stopped 3 hours outside of Gatlinburg in Berria (?sp) listening to Books on Tape. Helped Mom with PT at home; mom will do PT Mon, Th and Fri this week as July 4 is a holiday. Norah brought a HotSpot from work, so can connect on the internet for work. Still couldn't figure out the blog part. Heated Rondah's pizza for dinner.
Mom's wound sounds good. SteriStrip is coming off, so Norah can clip the loose ends off; she'll also cover the upper scab if it starts to catch. Mom's spending more time outdoors, which sounds good. She's been walking on the deck with the ski poles. Now we need to get her to eat more food to gain back the weight she's lost.
Norah will look into PeaPod or Food City deliveries. Mom helped Norah fold the linen from Pat & Andrew, tomorrow it's clothes laundry from M&D, about a week's work. Norah will be busy.
Thank you all for your "shifts"! It sounds like Mom is making steady progress, and they told me that they appreciate the way we've all chipped in, despite what they say!
Rondah, send us a picture of poor Bailey!
Mom's wound sounds good. SteriStrip is coming off, so Norah can clip the loose ends off; she'll also cover the upper scab if it starts to catch. Mom's spending more time outdoors, which sounds good. She's been walking on the deck with the ski poles. Now we need to get her to eat more food to gain back the weight she's lost.
Norah will look into PeaPod or Food City deliveries. Mom helped Norah fold the linen from Pat & Andrew, tomorrow it's clothes laundry from M&D, about a week's work. Norah will be busy.
Thank you all for your "shifts"! It sounds like Mom is making steady progress, and they told me that they appreciate the way we've all chipped in, despite what they say!
Rondah, send us a picture of poor Bailey!
Sunday, July 1, 2012
Pat's Post from Sat and Sunday! POD 10 & 11
Hi all –
Since I was not able to blog, I decided to crate this word document to inform you of the happenings down here with mom and dad. If anyone wants to attach this to the blog, please do so. I feel that it is easier for me to write this way with a full keyboard instead of the hunt peck method with my large thumbs.
Thursday June 28, 2012
· Andrew and I arrive at 8:00 pm met with mom, dad and Sheilah. Took transition picture with Sheilah and she posted it on the blog. Reviewed mom’s treatments and went over daily procedures – time, quantity and reps. Discussed what needs to be done on daily basis etc.
Friday June 29, 2012
· Heard beeping in house, Sheilah and I determined it to be a battery in smoke detector. Asked mom and dad about the beeping noise and they could not here it. Asked when the last time they changed the battery and they said 2 ½ years ago. Decided it was time to change the batteries. Andrew replaced the batteries later in the day and confirmed it was last replaced in January 2010.
· Replaced furnace filter in hallway by bedrooms. Last replaced was February 2012.
· Vacuumed the upper level. Not only is the vacuum heavy, but the suction is so great that it is difficult to pull back and forth to vacuum. Can someone else please concur?
· Andrew took Sheilah to the airport and evidently had a good visit with Sheilah. · Went to Physical Therapy today and Chuck had the walker raised 1”. Mom is walking more erect now and is able to use the walker for exercising and get better effect of the exercise with the walker at the higher position.
· Bought in the walking sticks as asked by Sheilah; mom refuses to use them because she is unsure on them. Chuck had mom use the sticks to walk 100’ towards the door and back. Chuck commented that she was doing quite well. When I talked to mom after the session she said that she will refuse to use the sticks because she feels more secure with the walker. I explained that we are not trying to get rid of the walker at this time, but we are trying to get her to use the sticks as the next support apparatus. We do not expect her to go immediately from walker to sticks without any transition period between. I than surprised her and told her that I just added that to her daily exercise program, she is to walk with the walking sticks twice a day on the deck back and forth for a period of time that she feels comfortable. I hope that isn’t too much to ask of her.
· Chuck added another stretching exercise to work on in addition to her other ones; it is to be done to strengthen the back part of the calves. I placed the sheet with the others to work on when exercising.
· Reviewed Dads prescriptions with the pharmacist at Food City. Doctor renewed all prescriptions at the same time so that they all will renew at the same time next year. Mom and Dad are confused why that the prescription says one more refill and the pharmacist needs to contact the doctor. Prescription had expired. Pharmacist says that if they order their prescriptions one week before they need them that he would contact the doctor to renew the script. I explained that to mom and dad and they will order the prescriptions a week early now.
· At dinner time, Dad suggested to mom to get her hair done, he said “I only want you to look the best that you can so that you will feel better, more back to normal”. Mom said that she washed her hair with Sheilah and that she will wash and set her hair tomorrow.
· During her exercises this evening, mom cursed me out a half dozen times and than shot me with her finger gun another half dozen times. She said that she wanted Sheilah back, “Sheilah was tough, but you are absolutely difficult”.
· Seepage on the bandage this evening was rectangular in shape a little larger than a postage stamp. Since Sheilah thought that the exercising was the cause of the seepage, I suggested that we exercise earlier tomorrow (preferably before dinner) wait until after dinner to change the dressing and see how well the bandage looks Sunday morning. No comment from mom at this time. Does this idea have any merit or not?
· I was pressing on the sides of the incision above the bandage this evening and while doing so, mom said “Ouch”. I revisited the area and asked if it hurts and she said yes. Is there going to be a tender area due to the incision? I know with my knee surgery, if I hit my knee in a certain area I still get a sharp pain up and down my leg. I am thinking that this is the pain mom is feeling when I checked this area out. I will review this with her again tomorrow.
· Andrew wanted to go miniature golfing, he felt the need to teach me a lesson on the golf links. I asked if he wanted a 36 hole mini-tournament and he agreed. Andrew wins the front 18 holes by 4 strokes, I win the back 18 holes by 5 strokes. I win the tournament by 1 stroke. He is seeking security cameras to see if I was cheating.
· Returned home after golf tournament and was greeted be the beeping noise that we thought was the fire detectors. Will look tomorrow for that sound.
Saturday June 30, 2012
- At breakfast this morning mom announced that she was able to roll over in bed without any pain last night. Very promising news.
- I asked mom how she was feeling this morning and she said that her legs were sore. I explained to her that this was good and that when she doesn’t feel sore in the legs anymore that would mean she was better. She did not like this answer, I think she wanted sympathy from me and I was not giving it to her.
- Asked mom to do exercise at 9:00 am, she said that she was good enough to do them by herself. I told her that we came down to help and to let us help.
- Dad talked to her a few minutes and came to the kitchen where I was and said that she was ready to exercise. He said that he did not realize how stubborn she could be.
- Mom volunteered to use the walking sticks and we walked on the back porch for a few minutes. She was able to go to the planter boxes on the railing and pull the dead plants. I believe that she really enjoyed being outside.
- Washed the Green Subaru. Cleaned inside, outside and washed the windows.
- Andrew was concerned that the oil light reminder was coming on in the Prius that we drove down here. I asked Dad where the nearest Toyota shop or Jiffy Lube location was because Andrew wanted the oil changed. According to Dad, the nearest location was Knoxville and that he has his oil changed at Wal-Mart. I let Andrew know this and he volunteered to take the car in. While waiting for the car, Andrew became hungry so he purchased some animal crackers and went outside to eat them. A few moments later someone came out and asked him if he was hungry they would get him a sandwich. Fortunately, he declined the southern hospitality and explained he was waiting for his car and thanked them anyway.
- Mom was telling me how to make hotdogs for lunch and that she and dad had already eaten. I looked at her and said that I have made hot dogs before and that I wanted to wait for Andrew. Mom gives me the sigh that she does and gets up to walk out of the family room to the dining room where dad was walking out of the kitchen to the dining room. Dad asked mom where she was going and said that she was going to take a nap. Dad said that that sounded good and that he would take a nap with her. I told them that I would be quiet and dad turned his head to me and said “You do that”.
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